Written by gerard on Sunday 3 May 2009

What to do about Twitter? Do I want more followers? Do I need more followers? Everybody says you need loads of followers?
The truth is, I'm an old-timer in terms of social media. I've witnessed the rise and fall of MySpace, and countless other services being launched and failing to gain traction. I dread to think how many dormant accounts I have littering the web.
So, do I want to get into another social media site, playing the numbers game yet again, clamouring for friends and contacts because friends and contacts equal influence.
The thing is, Facebook and Twitter seem to be more genuine social media sites. They're more about people than connections and gaming the system. That's why I get quite defensive when I read sites like TwiTip, which seem to endlessly repeat the message that you need to accumulate as many followers as humanly possible.
After all those years of trying to gather attention on Digg, StumbleUpon, MyBlogLog (I didn't, but maybe you did), Delicious and all those other networking sites, Twitter and especially Facebook are places that are better suited to your real friends and contacts. After all those years, I'm fatigued with trying to build follower numbers. They're metrics that mean very little unless you've got major attention.
I also had a bizarre encounter the other day with one Ari Herzog (@ariherzog), who took exception to my use of an autoresponder on my personal account. Ari later pondered about follower strategies and whether one should follow every person who follows you.
There was a great debate about reciprocal following. Ari was practicing this, but my approach to our @unrealitytv account was to only follow people who I know or regard online. Other commenters noted that they would prefer to have quality over quantity. If you're really into networking, following massive numbers of people can only be a bad thing. You only have a finite amount of time for Twittering.
The reciprocal follower notion is bullshit. Choose who you follow - make sure they're - as the FBI say - a person of interest.
Well, I've had some really interesting conversations with members of our various Unreality sites. Those have been great ways to develop relationships and share ideas. One of my Twitter friends recommended that I write a post about Primeval in the style of personal ads, which is going to be fun.
I follow a number of entertainment publications and journalists I've met out and about. I also follow all the good web design gurus that first got me into blogging, XHTML and clever stuff like that. And then there are some flesh and blood folks who I keep in touch with through Twitter (although the real close ones are on Facebook).
Here's an outline of what I'm using Twitter for:
Now, if the miraculous does happen and we end up with lots of followers, that would be wonderful. But I like the notion of winning fans one person at a time. Either way, there's no hurry. We're just enjoying ourselves.
I have been agonizing over whether I should watch my followers list to see who's following me and reciprocate the odd 'person of interest'. I don't want to follow everybody, since Twitter is loaded with spammers, marketers and 'social media consultants'. My patronage will not be used to stroke the egos of social media spammers.
Number crunching sucks. I know for a fact Seth Godin blogged recently about building your customer base person by person, but I can't be bothered to find the link.
The fact is, I couldn't be arsed gaming Twitter to build 20,000 followers to listen to my message. I'll take the fun path and use Twitter to chat to folk, thanks very much. You can keep your worthless lists of reciprocal followers, I'm just happy to chat to the people I know through my sites and people with similar interests.
I get so tired of hearing how you can leverage Twitter. How you choose to use the service is your own business, but the plethora of dead MySpace accounts today is testament to the fact that we've all wasted our time building pointless lists of 'friends'. Maybe the thing to do is to stop trying to automate success (it hasn't worked for me - has it worked for you?) and just have fun and maybe pick up a few loyal followers along the way.
Comments
I love Seth! My husband
I love Seth! My husband turned me on to him. I am not crazy about Twitter or any of the other media sites. I have been sticking to StumbleUpon.
Great article -